The best vibrator for a buzz alone or with your partner

Buying the best vibrator isn't always an easy journey, especially as there are so many brands to choose from nowadays. From clitoral suction toys to rabbit vibrators, these are the top picks from across the market, as reviewed by me.

As well as having plenty of choice in brands, when it comes to buying the right toy for you, there are so many other factors to consider. Everyone has different tastes, desires, and preferences, from the type of vibrator they use to the material it's made from, and the color of it. 

Some will even find that it's not a vibrator they want after all, but a pick of the best sex toys instead. To set you on your way to finding your perfect match in the vibrator space, we've tried and tested the best buys from top brands including Satisfyer, We-Vibe, Lelo, and Durex. 

How to choose the best vibrator for you 

• Do you want a beginner or advanced toy? Start with a smaller toy if you're unsure, like a bullet vibrator or clitoral stimulator, to help you figure out what sensations you like best.
• Are you looking for a sex toy to use with your partner? Remote control or app-controlled vibrators are great for couples who like to play, whether they're in the same room or miles apart. 
• Do you enjoy sex in the shower? Opt for one of the waterproof vibrators in my top picks so you can have even more fun during shower time. 
• Is discreet packaging important to you? Sex toy specialists, such as Durex and Lovehoney, promise discreet packaging. I can verify the contents of their packages are safely disguised. General retailers like Amazon treat all of their shipping the same, regardless of contents, so bear this in mind if you don't want your household or neighbors catching a glimpse of the contents of your delivery. 
• Interested in trying something new? Whether you want a new trusty G-spot vibrator or experimental love eggs, a variety of vibrators made it into my guide. If you're keen to try a new vibrator but not sure which one to choose, I've got you covered with a full breakdown of the different types below. 

The best vibrator for you, handpicked by our expert

Clitoral vibrators

The best bullet vibrators and clitoral vibrators have a lot in common but the main difference is in the sensations. The former mainly just vibrate at different speeds and in various pulsation patterns, and the latter work to simulate sensations like licking, sucking, and blowing. 

If you’re experiencing loss of sensation or aren't interested in penetration, the Satisfyer Pro 2 could be the best vibrator for you. Although the shape looks like something a doctor would use, the rose-gold handle is really sleek and easy to grip. 

This sex toy is designed to sit snugly around your clitoris and uses vibrations to create a ‘suck and blow’ type of sensation and pulsation. Never used a toy like this before? It will change the way you masturbate forever.

Firstly, I found it to be ultra-quiet, even on some of the higher settings (there are 11 in total). But as the suction vibe is so different from the usual choices you may have experienced, it’s worth starting with the lowest setting and building up slowly when you’re ready. 

While it may give your partner some tingling sensations when used during foreplay, this piece of kit is definitely the best vibrator when it comes to solo use.

See my full Satisfyer Pro 2 review

The Lelo Ora 3 is circular, sleek and looks expensive…because it is! You could leave this on your kitchen table and no one would know it’s actually a vibrator. Everything about this sex toy is different from what you’re used to, so ideal if you have tried pretty much everything else and are feeling a bit bored. But, because of this, using this vibrator is almost like learning to walk again.

Firstly, you have to put your thumb through the center in a certain way to use the controls - you can follow the handy diagram, but I found that it does feel odd at first. There are 12 modes to choose from to increase or decrease sensation, so unless you’re happy to stay at the same setting for the duration, it’s best to get the handling right before you begin and learn how to use a vibrator in this way. 

The most unique aspect of this sex toy, I found, is that its motion is meant to replicate a tongue-like action, mimicking oral sex. To be honest, the jury is still out on that one. It’s definitely best used with the lubrication sachet that comes with it though, and plenty of imagination.

See my full Lelo Ora 3 review

In a long-distance relationship? The We-Vibe Sync could be the best vibrator to keep that spark going. That's because it can be controlled by anyone in the world to who you give permission. All they have to do is download the free app. 

Even if you're in the same room as your partner, it can add some fun to your evening. Once you have carefully slipped the We-Vibe Sync inside you, both you and your partner can benefit from the buzzes during penetration. With vibes hitting both your clitoris and G-spot at the same time, and with 10 different pulsations to choose from, all you have to do is find a setting that you both like. This versatility is one of the reasons it's on my must-have list. 

Plus, of the products listed here, I found the We-Vibe Sync to be relatively quiet. So you wouldn’t be disturbing the neighbors. Just make sure you use the sample of water-based lube that comes in the box, as it definitely helps heighten sensation.

See my full We-Vibe Sync review

Vibrators don’t have to look like traditional bullets or phallic shapes anymore. In fact, they don’t even have to vibrate, either. Step forward, the Zumio X Precision Clitoral Stimulator. It’s actually more of a sex toy than a vibrator because, instead of having a vibrating end, the small spherical tip (known as the SpiroTip) rotates in mesmerizing circles to help stimulate your clitoris. Plus, it’s pressure-sensitive, so the speed will adjust to how delicate or intense you like it, depending on how much pressure you apply with your hand when using. With eight different speeds, there’s definitely enough choice - although watch out, it's definitely on the intense side!

The Zumio X looks more like a fancy pen than a sex toy, I found. Quiet and compact, it’s waterproof as well, making it the ideal vibrator to enjoy in the bath or shower. Designed for clitoral or labia stimulation, the Zumio X can be used for erogenous zones but, to be honest, it’s probably better suited to solo use as the rotating tip is so targeted. While it can take a bit of work to hit the exact sweet spot, once you’re familiar with it, the precision it offers means you can potentially orgasm very quickly - perfect if you have little spare time for your own pleasure. 

If you find you love the Zumio X, it may be worth investing in the rest of the range. Available in Zumio S, E and I, each one has a slightly different spherical tip and stem, so you can really personalize the experience, making having an orgasm easy.

If you’re looking for a vibrator for female masturbation, then a clitoral stimulator, such as The Poet, is a gamechanger. That’s because, not only will the suction-style toy pretty much guarantee an orgasm thanks to its targeted design to sit over the clitoris, but Smile Makers has gone one step further when creating this sex toy. The result? Multiple orgasms. 

The award-winning brand is at the forefront of design compared to many sex toy makers. They’ve taken on board the fact that all women come in different shapes, and that includes the size and position of their clitoris. This means The Poet has a very unique feature - it comes with three differently shaped “stimulation heads”, so you can find the closest fit for you. It might not seem like this would make much of a difference but, when the soft silicone fits snugly around your clitoris, the pleasure is a lot more intense. This extra layer of arousal means you’ll be more likely to have multiple orgasms, and you won’t want to use a one-size-fits-all toy ever again.

And that’s not all. Find buttons fiddly to use when you’re feeling out of control? The Poet has made things really simple by allowing you to change the five pulsating patterns during play by simply squeezing on the sides. Bright pink and oval-shaped, no one will look twice at this sex toy if they happen to see it in your room or bag.

The only downside to The Poet is you have to remove the stimulation head when cleaning, which is a bit more fiddly than some other vibrators. But perhaps I'm being picky. Plus, while it can be used in the bath or shower (it is surprisingly quiet for how powerful it is), adding a slick of the lube will really make a difference when you’re on dry land. You won’t want to part with this sex toy - and I don’t blame you, either.

Free from allergens, such as latex and phthalates, the Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Love Ring is a simple sex toy that really delivers. What’s more, it’s a bargain! That’s because, unlike many disposable cock rings, which just rely on battery power, this one is rechargeable via USB. So there’s no way the Ignite Love Ring will end up gathering dust in your sock drawer while waiting for you to buy a new battery. This couple’s pick comes with a travel pouch - which is handy seeing as it also has a travel lock, ensuring it won’t go off unexpectedly when you’re on a naughty weekend away.

Worn around the base of a penis, this flexible silicone buy has two small-but-perfectly-placed rabbit ears to target the clitoris during sex. Which, again, is much more than the raised nubs most love rings offer. With three speeds to choose from, and 17 patterns of vibration, those experimenting with sex toys for the first time will have more than enough variety to find something they like. The full power mode is much stronger than you would expect for something so small, although seasoned rabbit vibrator fans may want something even more powerful.

You only need a slick of lube to really feel the benefits of this adult toy. Inexpensive and hands-free, it’s just the thing if you and your partner need an extra boost, especially if your sex drive has taken a dip. While it’s not too intimidating to bring into the bedroom, the only downside is that if your partner is particularly well-endowed, it might feel too tight for him. But, as this is a versatile vibe, there’s always the option of controlling it with your hands instead for some solo pleasure.

From ultra-powerful vibes to in-your-face phallic shapes, if you’re new to sex toys, there’s plenty that can scare you off. This is why I love the rechargeable Dame Fin Finger Vibrator. Firstly, it comes with a handy storage pouch so you can keep it private in a drawer or your bag. And the handy travel lock (an unusual extra feature for something so tiny), means you don’t have to worry about this going off unexpectedly. 

Secondly, it doesn’t look like a typical sex toy. Designed to be held close to your fingertips (there’s a soft silicone strap which you can use as a ‘tether’), the small squarish-ish nub is the ultimate shape to target the clitoris. There are three different vibe settings to choose from, which are not as powerful as some of the other sex toys in this best vibrator round-up. However, the vibrations are ideal for beginners who want to start experimenting slowly on their own or to use during foreplay with a partner. If you want something more intense then you can just change the side and angle you use against your sensitive parts, as there is a soft side and a harder one.

Available in aqua blue or navy, the design is really appealing to everyone. Plus, with just one button to use, you don’t have to spend your time reading the instructions before having fun. The only major downside for me is the price. It seems a little expensive for an adult toy with only three settings, especially as it can’t be used for penetration. But the stylish design means you’ll keep it forever, though.

The last thing you want when you’re using your favorite sex toy is buzzing so loud the neighbors complain. A quiet pick is essential when it comes to choosing the best vibrator for you, especially if you don’t live alone. Step forward, the Get Lucky from So Divine. 

This bargain looks just like a finger, but with nine small bumps at the tip to provide extra sensation. It has three speeds and four different pulse patterns. Not only is this ultra-quiet, but it also comes fully charged so there’s no waiting around. You simply pull it apart into two sections to reveal the USB port, meaning you’ll never lose the charger for it - this alone earns it points for being one of the best vibrators I've seen. If you keep the two sections separately in your bag, you don’t have to worry about it going off unexpectedly.

It's controlled with just one button, so you have to click through to get the sensation you want, which can be slightly tricky, especially when turning it off (you need to press firmly). Overall, it’s discreet and does the job— I rate it as one of the best vibrators for beginners or those in need of a silent sex toy. 

A fan of bullet vibrators? Let us introduce you to The Hot Octopuss DiGit. Not only does this sexy buy come with a choice of six vibrations and speeds, but it’s also fully waterproof, so you can use it in the bath and shower.

The main difference between this bullet vibrator and others on the market is the fact that it has a flared tip to give your clitoris a wider range of vibes. It also has a handy finger strap, so the Hot Octopuss DiGit feels like an extension of your—or your partner’s - own hand. The stylish design and versatility of this vibrator mean it’s something you will have in your collection for a long time.

Plus, it really does pack a punch when it comes to the rumbles it can create. It’s just a shame the battery doesn’t last for very long before it needs charging, as you’ll want to use this best vibrator repeatedly.

See my full Hot Octopuss DiGit review

Bullet vibrators

Designed for solo use or with a partner, the best bullet vibrators tend to be about the same size as a tampon and the girth of your thumb. In the rabbit vibrators vs clitoral stimulators, they certainly sit on the side of clitoral stimulation as they're vibrators mainly designed for external use on the clitoris and erogenous zones, such as the nipples and perineum.

Even if you’re the one wielding it about, a large dildo can be intimidating - especially if you’ve never used one before. In that case, a small vibrator is best for first-timers. Enter, the Durex Intense Delight Vibrating Bullet. It's one of the top bullets out there and a great first sex toy. 

This is a bargain, but that's not the main reason it features on my best vibrator list. It comes with a battery that lasts for up to five hours (you just unscrew one end for access), so it’s ready to use as soon as you open it. Despite it only having one vibe setting, which is on the gentle side, this toy is waterproof so you can use it in the bath and shower. What's more, it's really quiet. If you're still figuring out how to have an orgasm alone or with a partner and want to gain some confidence before moving on to something else, then this is the best vibrator for you.

Looking for something a little longer than the average bullet, but without an intimidating girth? The My Viv Slim Vibrator is suitable for both internal and external use (which makes it more versatile than standard smaller toys), so is the ideal pick. Plus, you won’t have to spend a fortune. 

Designed for anyone who experiences painful sex due to vaginismus, vaginal tightness, trauma or cancer treatment, this smooth and lightweight buy can be carefully inserted (using plenty of lube) and won’t cause any damage to the delicate area. You can choose from three speeds (which start off gently), and seven pulse patterns, so you can increase the intensity of the vibrator slowly as you gain more confidence using it. There’s one button to control everything, which makes it simple to operate, especially if you feel panicked and need to stop at any point.

The My Viv Slim Vibrator looks just slightly larger than a pen, so it’s not a problem if someone in your household sees it. The only downside is that it needs batteries so you have to replace them, and it can be slightly noisy at times. Otherwise, a great bargain.

Rabbit vibrators

The best rabbit vibrators were made famous in the 90s, popularized by the hit television show Sex and the City. They target both the G-sport and clitoris to create one strong, blended orgasm. 

Lelo has a habit of pushing the boundaries when it comes to sex toys, and this new-style vibrator is no exception.

Soft, sleek, and stylish, the Enigma is a bit like a rabbit vibrator in the sense that one end can be used for internal penetration to satisfy the G-Spot, while an external nub can give delight to the clitoris at the same time. However, the “nub” has special powers of its own. Using sonic waves, instead of touching your super-sensitive clitoris, it actually “blows” air onto that area instead. This is ideal if you prefer a lighter touch down below. The effect of the double stimulation can lead to a mind-blowing blended orgasm which, of course, means double the pleasure for you. This really is the best vibrator when it comes to pleasure, in my opinion.

Available in either pink or black, the Enigma has eight different vibe settings and is fully waterproof - so definitely the best vibrator pick for some “me-time” alone in the bath. The only real downside is that it’s so soft, bendy, and fits the female body so well that you won’t want to share it with a partner.

Rabbit vibrators are some of the best vibrators out there for their ability to give you a blended orgasm. This is when you have two different types of orgasm at the same time (usually a clitoral orgasm and an internal or G-spot orgasm). Rabbits are perfect for achieving this because they’re designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the vagina at the same time.

For me, this is the best rabbit vibrator. It's powerful and not for the faint-hearted - even the shape of the shaft is a bit overwhelming, despite the cute rabbit-shaped features. You'll want to use plenty of lube to insert this large adult toy comfortably. 

With an easy control button, it has 15 modes that make the shaft and the bunny ears move at different times. It’s worth noting that these are specifically designed to greatly increase your chance of having an orgasm—which it does—but it’s quite fierce at times so can make you orgasm in a matter of seconds. It's also not great if you're extra sensitive down below.

There’s no hiding what this is - you certainly wouldn’t want a family member to stumble across it accidentally - but it definitely does the job, and quickly, so it was an obvious addition to my best vibrator guide.

See my full Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator review

G-spot vibrators

G-spot vibrators come in all different shapes and sizes. Some are rabbits that work the G-spot and the clit at the same time, some are more dildo-shaped and just focus on the one spot, while others are egg-shaped and work as the best app-controlled vibrators.

Strong, deep vibrations and super soft, this traditional-looking sex toy is the perfect shape for penetration, making G-Spot orgasms almost guaranteed. No wonder it made it onto my best vibrator roundup.

But, the Kurve goes one step further as it comes with special dual-motor technology - simply put, this nice-and-punchy penetrator has both bass and treble settings for really rumbly vibrations throughout. The treble controls the tip of the vibrator, while the bass makes the shaft rumble. It means the combination of vibes feels endless, so you won’t get bored in a hurry. The only downside is that while the controls are raised so you can feel them easily, there are four buttons to control instead of the usual “up and down” typical of most G-spot vibrators, making it slightly less intuitive.

The best bit about this adult toy, and the reason I love it so much, is the bulbous end is super soft (and I really mean that - it’s a lot softer than anything else I've ever tried), so great for using on your clitoris or during foreplay with your partner. Plus, it’s fully waterproof, so your fun doesn’t have to stop in the shower or hot tub. Two hours of battery life may seem like a long time, but the Kurve is so addictive that you’ll definitely need to keep charging it up again and again.

Egg vibrators are super versatile. You can use them while your partner goes down on you, but on your own, they can be an equal treat. Why? Because with it buzzing away inside you hands-free, you won’t feel like you’re going solo. This vibrator takes an hour to charge, and then you only get an hour's worth of play with it before it needs charging again - but that should be more than enough time for you to have some fun. 

The Mantric consists of a ring controller and a smooth egg, which goes inside your vagina. Syncing the two parts of this best vibrator is easy I found, and there are five modes and two speeds to try. The egg part is just slightly thinner than a Cadbury Creme Egg, so you need to insert it with water-based lube. The vibrations target your G-spot, which can be slightly daunting, but there’s a large hook at the end so you can remove it quickly if you panic or don't enjoy the sensation. If you're looking to expand your sex toy arsenal, this is the best vibrator to choose.

Apparently, we should all be doing at least 100 kegel exercises a day to help tone down below. Well, guess what? If you're into that, this is the best vibrator to help. It works both as a vibrator and as one of the best pelvic floor trainers, combining both pleasure and your essential pelvic floor homework. But don’t let the medical side of this device put you off; it’s also great for orgasms, mainly thanks to the generous size of the gyrating tip, which is covered in ridges.

It has ten rotating patterns, which your pelvic floor muscles will contract in response to, although quite gentle, there is more than enough variation available to help keep things interesting. One of the best things about this device (and one of the key reasons that it made it onto the best vibrator list) is the curved shape of the shaft - it just makes handling so much easier. This design comes with remote control, too, so you can go hands-free, but my preference was to hold on to the toy itself, especially when focused on the pelvic floor.

What are the different types of vibrators?

G-Spot vibrators: Phallic in shape, these have a shaft to penetrate the vagina. These are a good pick if you haven't had much experience using one before.

Rabbits: Rabbit vibrators have a similar girth to a G-Spot vibrator but come with vibrating “rabbit” ears, to target your clitoris at the same time. It's definitely not a gentle vibrator but is the best vibrator for powerful orgasms.

Clitoral vibrators: They envelop the clitoris with gentle suction sensations rather than powerful vibrations, so the best vibrator if you're sensitive down below.

Bullets: Smaller and thinner vibrators, this is the best vibrator for clitoral stimulation and external erogenous zones.

Vibrating cock rings: Worn around the base of a penis, this will press against your clitoris when your partner is inside you. The restriction of the ring could also help them to feel harder. This is the best vibrator for couples to use in a hurry.

Love eggs: Placed inside your vagina (with lots of lube), these egg-shaped vibrators usually come with a remote control to give to your partner so they have total control over your pleasure (even when you’re on the go). When you’re on your own, the remote makes them the best option if you don't like fiddling with buttons. These are a must-have for flirting and foreplay.

Finger vibrators: Can be used for G-spot and clitoris stimulation during foreplay and masturbation. These are usually the best vibrator for those who like a smaller, more discreet pick. 

Couple’s vibrators: Available in a variety of shapes and sizes, they're worn during sex by both parties to increase sensations for a couple.

How to wash your vibrator

How to clean a vibrator is the second most important thing you need to know, after you learn about all the different types, and before you make your choice. Some are waterproof and you can just remove the batteries, then wash with soap and water, while others will require more specialist cleaning. 

Either way, always consult the packaging that your vibrator came in for the best cleaning practice to avoid damage.